I haven't written for a while because I've been busy learning to become a salesperson. That's right... you are looking at the newest Avon representative. To some selling Avon might be a "old lady job" but I disagree... I am hoping it's the next step in me finding a full time job.
I chose Avon because... well I could use the cash... but also because many of the jobs I'm applying for are entitled "Marketing & Communications Manager"... I have the communications part down, but I didn't go to school for marketing, in fact I ran from it like the plague! But with Avon... if you don't market yourself, you don't make any money.... end of story.
When I was younger the last thing I ever wanted to be was a salesperson of any sort... partly because I refused to be like my dad (I was rebellious)... but also because I didn't want to be the person who had to wear the suit everyday and... it's just not me, I'm not a "stiff" person. The problem is... those who make money... wear suits. So I'll get a little more used to the idea, but until then I also have to work on my skills.
See, I don't like just going up to people, trying to convince them to use moisturizer or change lipstick... so I guess we will see just how successful I can be! But I can be honest with people, telling them I am selling... hope that sweet and innocent can also sell. The thing is I know I need to be more aggressive, more confident in myself... and I'm hoping this new endeavor will do just that!
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Monday, July 5, 2010
Sunday, June 27, 2010
It's Times Like These....
There are times in your life when you are going through your own struggle... but then something happens and you realize that God must be busy with other people... and it's for the best. So yes, I have been praying that I sell my house, find a job, etc. etc. But recently my prayers have changed direction... to others, who need them a lot more than me.
A dear family friend is about to have surgery. Growing up they were like another Aunt and Uncle, and were people I was always happy to see. But this week, a prayer request came out, asking to keep him in mind as he undergoes a serious surgery... and my heart breaks a little... it makes me feel a bit selfish for wanting my life to improve, when at least my small family (and extended family) is for the most part healthy.
Another family friend also recently went through A LOT. Hospitalized for something... the doctors still can't diagnose, and my not until it's too late... and while the miracle of prayer did help him recover some what, he now is burying his father-in-law.
It really makes you think... I've always been a firm believer that God never gives you more than you can handle... and when I look at other situations, I think... maybe he knows I can't handle that much! I mean, I would be a wreck if something happened to Shaun... heck even with my cat, Jack, was sick I was a nervous mom! I know I may not be the most religious person in the world... or even in my family... but I do believe in prayers and miracles... and hope... HOPE that those who have been so good to my family for so many years will have the strength to get through these times... and maybe a little hope that when their lives get back to "normal" that God may have a second or two to help Shaun and I sell our home :)
A dear family friend is about to have surgery. Growing up they were like another Aunt and Uncle, and were people I was always happy to see. But this week, a prayer request came out, asking to keep him in mind as he undergoes a serious surgery... and my heart breaks a little... it makes me feel a bit selfish for wanting my life to improve, when at least my small family (and extended family) is for the most part healthy.
Another family friend also recently went through A LOT. Hospitalized for something... the doctors still can't diagnose, and my not until it's too late... and while the miracle of prayer did help him recover some what, he now is burying his father-in-law.
It really makes you think... I've always been a firm believer that God never gives you more than you can handle... and when I look at other situations, I think... maybe he knows I can't handle that much! I mean, I would be a wreck if something happened to Shaun... heck even with my cat, Jack, was sick I was a nervous mom! I know I may not be the most religious person in the world... or even in my family... but I do believe in prayers and miracles... and hope... HOPE that those who have been so good to my family for so many years will have the strength to get through these times... and maybe a little hope that when their lives get back to "normal" that God may have a second or two to help Shaun and I sell our home :)
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Has My House Always Been This Dirty?
Having more time on my hands means I'm noticing a lot more than I used to. And while cleaning the bathroom today I thought to myself... has it always been this dirty? I swear I feel like I'm cleaning more often then I ever did before. I figure one or some of the following things factored into this:
1. I'm bored, therefore being more picky than normal on how dirty things are.
2. Since the house is on the market we have to keep it nicer than normal, therefore I feel the need to keep up with things more.
3. Since buying the house I have added a man, rabbit and a second cat... obviously making more of a mess... however our family has been complete for more than a year now, and I don't remember cleaning this much a year ago.
4. The house has always been really messy but with my work schedule I just didn't notice. I know I'm not the only one to ever work overnights, or 50 hours a week. I know other people do it, with kids, etc.... and maybe their houses are also messy. But I thought maybe I was just too tired to notice the soap scum in the back corner of the shower, or the tiny pieces of litter that make their way down the hall.
So who knows what the reasoning is... I do know that I am enjoying a cleaner home.... but my least favorite chore is still cleaning the toilet!!!!!
1. I'm bored, therefore being more picky than normal on how dirty things are.
2. Since the house is on the market we have to keep it nicer than normal, therefore I feel the need to keep up with things more.
3. Since buying the house I have added a man, rabbit and a second cat... obviously making more of a mess... however our family has been complete for more than a year now, and I don't remember cleaning this much a year ago.
4. The house has always been really messy but with my work schedule I just didn't notice. I know I'm not the only one to ever work overnights, or 50 hours a week. I know other people do it, with kids, etc.... and maybe their houses are also messy. But I thought maybe I was just too tired to notice the soap scum in the back corner of the shower, or the tiny pieces of litter that make their way down the hall.
So who knows what the reasoning is... I do know that I am enjoying a cleaner home.... but my least favorite chore is still cleaning the toilet!!!!!
Saturday, June 12, 2010
More Rejection... and A Little Bit of Positive
So this week has been very interesting in the job search. First the negative... I got 3 rejection letters today. I still feel that while it's nice to know that a job I applied to several months ago is now filled... it doesn't help. Plus, all of the letters said there were more than 200 applicants. So it's hard to not get down on yourself when I'm here in Ohio and there are 199+ applicants applying for the same job that are NOT in Ohio.
On the other side... I applied to a job at a museum about... 3 months ago. I heard back and they filled the position. Then on Thursday I was doing my normal round of searches when I saw the job... was open again! So I reapplied. Not sure if I stand a chance, after all it's not like I had an interview. But I'm trying to stay positive. See my last job at the TV station... well I applied in June... never heard back until I got a call in October. They filled the position and then the person didn't work out so they called me! So ya never know.
It is hard not getting discouraged... ok who am I kidding... I'm discouraged. I guess what's hard is to not let it stop you... I keep trying to tell myself that at some point it will work out... and at this point in my life it's still working.
On the other side... I applied to a job at a museum about... 3 months ago. I heard back and they filled the position. Then on Thursday I was doing my normal round of searches when I saw the job... was open again! So I reapplied. Not sure if I stand a chance, after all it's not like I had an interview. But I'm trying to stay positive. See my last job at the TV station... well I applied in June... never heard back until I got a call in October. They filled the position and then the person didn't work out so they called me! So ya never know.
It is hard not getting discouraged... ok who am I kidding... I'm discouraged. I guess what's hard is to not let it stop you... I keep trying to tell myself that at some point it will work out... and at this point in my life it's still working.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Can Applications Come with IQ Tests?
I am not going to boast that I am a genius, because I know I'm not. I am confident in saying that I am smarter than the average person... at least I think so (as do standardized tests).... my problem is... I question if my resume lets people know that.
I do not want to speak bad of people who work in television, because I sat next to some individuals that were incredibly smart, much smarter than myself. But I also sat next to some people I questioned how they even got into college let alone graduated. A former co-worker (who was also a student at the time) once questioned why "Deep Throat" was a topic in an ethics conference for journalists. See she confused the informant who broke the Watergate Scandal for a sex act. Yeah... these are the people who then become the reporters that are the butt of jokes.
Even in college, once I changed majors I really started to notice just how little people needed to know. For example: When I was a Biology major I had to take some pretty difficult Chemistry classes that required quite a bit of math.... making something like standard deviation... easy. I changed majors and then... I'm sitting in a Statistics class and the professor tells us that "you don't need to know standard deviation because it's too hard" REALLY!?!?!
So here I am... boasting a degree that a talking monkey could get... and a job that isn't much better. I'm applying for jobs that require a person to be organized and intelligent. Jobs I know that I can do, jobs I know I'm more than qualified for intellectually... but is that really coming across on a job application? I know once I talk to someone or get an interview I will blow them away... that is if my resume doesn't get blown off. So here's hoping!
I do not want to speak bad of people who work in television, because I sat next to some individuals that were incredibly smart, much smarter than myself. But I also sat next to some people I questioned how they even got into college let alone graduated. A former co-worker (who was also a student at the time) once questioned why "Deep Throat" was a topic in an ethics conference for journalists. See she confused the informant who broke the Watergate Scandal for a sex act. Yeah... these are the people who then become the reporters that are the butt of jokes.
Even in college, once I changed majors I really started to notice just how little people needed to know. For example: When I was a Biology major I had to take some pretty difficult Chemistry classes that required quite a bit of math.... making something like standard deviation... easy. I changed majors and then... I'm sitting in a Statistics class and the professor tells us that "you don't need to know standard deviation because it's too hard" REALLY!?!?!
So here I am... boasting a degree that a talking monkey could get... and a job that isn't much better. I'm applying for jobs that require a person to be organized and intelligent. Jobs I know that I can do, jobs I know I'm more than qualified for intellectually... but is that really coming across on a job application? I know once I talk to someone or get an interview I will blow them away... that is if my resume doesn't get blown off. So here's hoping!
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Bored to Tears
This week I have been stuck at home (Shaun's car is in the shop and since he has a job he used mine)... and I'll tell you what... I AM BORED!!!!!!!!!!!!! I sit at home and feel sorry for myself, borderline depression and all I am trying to smile.. but it's not easy. I realized today that it has been an entire month since we've even had a showing and I'm starting to really feel like our house with never sell. This of course makes it hard to want to keep it clean and keep it in perfect showing condition... let alone go ahead and spend time and money fixing up the landscaping, etc.
But that's not all... I also get down about not being able to find a job... I really honestly believe I am a catch... I just don't think anyone else knows that. I know this feeling will pass.. the feeling that I am stuck, not just in the house, but in life.... I'm just not sure when.
I am lucky since I have a loving family... both in my house and extended... and they will remind me that I am wonderful... but until then... I am going to have a few days where I just feel sorry for myself.
But that's not all... I also get down about not being able to find a job... I really honestly believe I am a catch... I just don't think anyone else knows that. I know this feeling will pass.. the feeling that I am stuck, not just in the house, but in life.... I'm just not sure when.
I am lucky since I have a loving family... both in my house and extended... and they will remind me that I am wonderful... but until then... I am going to have a few days where I just feel sorry for myself.
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Go Ahead & Make Plans
I thought I would be in Seattle by now... really I did. I completely underestimated how long it would take to sell the house and/or find a job. I think I'm a catch, and so is my house... so why am I still here?!! I am not angry about it... I'm getting a bit bored, but I'm not angry. It's weird because lately people have wanted to make plans and their question is always "do you have plans for....???" and our answer is always no. See, we weren't planning to be here, so we didn't make any plans past April 30. That's when the first time home buyer credit expired, and when we thought we would be busy packing. But I guess that just wasn't in the stars!
So here we are... finally making plans. Today I planted a vegetable garden in the back yard... that is after pulling out an entire trash can full of weeds... on the menu: corn, carrots, sweet potatoes, cherry tomatoes, and basil. I'm excited... it's the first thing I've really been excited about for awhile. I have gotten used to not making long term plans... which is quite a shift for me. I've always been one of those people who make plans 2-3 months out... sometimes more if it's a vacation.... now I am living week to week. Shaun and I decided last week that we might as well just make plans to be in Ohio all summer... since that's the way it looks like it's going to be. And I'm actually ok with it (not great, but ok).
I do however want to make plans way in advance. I wish I could start shopping for Christmas (yes, I'm one of those people)... and could make plans for Labor Day... see in Ohio I would be going to my family reunion... in Seattle I would be going to Bumbershoot... either way I will have fun... but.... I JUST WANT TO KNOW!!! I think the worst is not being able to go to things I know I will regret for my entire life. My best friend from college is getting married in 2 months... in Alaska. I had planned to go more than a year ago when I got the save the date... but then lost my job. I still thought, hey it would be a closer flight from Seattle, maybe I can still go... but as the date gets closer and closer it's really starting to sink in that I will not get to see her wedding... and that will haunt me forever. I know she will say it's ok, that's just the type of person she is... but for me... it's something that you just go to... without thought. So, anyone want to buy me a plane ticket to Alaska?!?!
So here we are... finally making plans. Today I planted a vegetable garden in the back yard... that is after pulling out an entire trash can full of weeds... on the menu: corn, carrots, sweet potatoes, cherry tomatoes, and basil. I'm excited... it's the first thing I've really been excited about for awhile. I have gotten used to not making long term plans... which is quite a shift for me. I've always been one of those people who make plans 2-3 months out... sometimes more if it's a vacation.... now I am living week to week. Shaun and I decided last week that we might as well just make plans to be in Ohio all summer... since that's the way it looks like it's going to be. And I'm actually ok with it (not great, but ok).
I do however want to make plans way in advance. I wish I could start shopping for Christmas (yes, I'm one of those people)... and could make plans for Labor Day... see in Ohio I would be going to my family reunion... in Seattle I would be going to Bumbershoot... either way I will have fun... but.... I JUST WANT TO KNOW!!! I think the worst is not being able to go to things I know I will regret for my entire life. My best friend from college is getting married in 2 months... in Alaska. I had planned to go more than a year ago when I got the save the date... but then lost my job. I still thought, hey it would be a closer flight from Seattle, maybe I can still go... but as the date gets closer and closer it's really starting to sink in that I will not get to see her wedding... and that will haunt me forever. I know she will say it's ok, that's just the type of person she is... but for me... it's something that you just go to... without thought. So, anyone want to buy me a plane ticket to Alaska?!?!
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Happy Birthday!
Today is my birthday... it was wonderful.. in fact the entire week has been great. Which is surprising considering I thought I would be in Seattle, working an amazing new job and having an amazing birthday overlooking the Space Needle and all. I thought with that hope, that goal once set by Shaun and I to celebrate our bdays in Seattle it would be disappointing to still be in Ohio.... but it's not. Sure, I would love to be there blowing out a candle on a cream of wheat piroshky from Piroshky! Piroshky! but my mom's homemade birthday cake was an amazing treat! Really it was great spending time with my family, having a BBQ the other day, then dinner tonight with my parents and Shaun... it was a great way to turn 28 and forget about everything else. But, tomorrow I'm officially less than 2 years away from turning 30... and very far away from my goals... so it's time to get cracking!
Monday, May 24, 2010
How Much Am I Worth?
It's a funny question to ask yourself, how much you are worth... but with the new job search I am forced to ask myself in terms of salary requirements. Today I was asked for salary requirements for a job that I didn't know much about, and it was for a non-profit. In their email they asked for salary requirements then said "keep in mind we are a small not for-profit organization"... which is great because that's what I wanted to work for... but at the same time that brought on the deliema.
Here's the problem... if I ask for too much they will dismiss me and be insulted... which is bad. If I don't ask for enough I 1. under value myself and 2. could miss out on a larger salary.... so how do you find out what to ask for??? Here is what I did. First I asked my career counselor and got her opinion. I also emailed someone who I know does the same job for another company in another city... she told me her starting salary, which I took into consideration with the cost of living in her city and Seattle. I also went to Salary.com's salary wizard and used their free service to give me a window to go with. I took all that into consideration and threw my hat in the ring.... so we'll see.
I do want to end on something extra positive. I don't have the job yet, but the job that asked for the salary requirements came from out of the blue. A few months ago I sent out cold call letters, essentially a resume with a cover letter saying "hey I know you don't have a job opening, I wanted to let you know that I'm available... and awesome!" Anyhow, they emailed me then out of the blue! They held on to my resume and when an opening came available that I was a good candidate for they emailed me! It was a great surprise... and could lead to an amazing birthday!!!!
Here's the problem... if I ask for too much they will dismiss me and be insulted... which is bad. If I don't ask for enough I 1. under value myself and 2. could miss out on a larger salary.... so how do you find out what to ask for??? Here is what I did. First I asked my career counselor and got her opinion. I also emailed someone who I know does the same job for another company in another city... she told me her starting salary, which I took into consideration with the cost of living in her city and Seattle. I also went to Salary.com's salary wizard and used their free service to give me a window to go with. I took all that into consideration and threw my hat in the ring.... so we'll see.
I do want to end on something extra positive. I don't have the job yet, but the job that asked for the salary requirements came from out of the blue. A few months ago I sent out cold call letters, essentially a resume with a cover letter saying "hey I know you don't have a job opening, I wanted to let you know that I'm available... and awesome!" Anyhow, they emailed me then out of the blue! They held on to my resume and when an opening came available that I was a good candidate for they emailed me! It was a great surprise... and could lead to an amazing birthday!!!!
Sunday, May 23, 2010
It's All About Me!
Ok, not really... but sometimes it is. Today for example my family held a wonderful barbecue for my birthday. It was amazing and made me really feel blessed to have such an amazing family who loves me for me. It made me think that sometimes you do need to put yourself first.
At work you always put your bosses needs first (as any good employee does)... but I would also put other people ahead of me that I didn't really need to... it was just a need to be liked I guess. The problem is now, I need to put myself first... I need to tell myself that I am good enough, that I do deserve the best... to honestly think about what *I* want... and demand nothing less... at least when it comes to the job search. So thank you to my family who, at least once a year, makes me put myself first... it's a good reminder that I deserve anything I want.
At work you always put your bosses needs first (as any good employee does)... but I would also put other people ahead of me that I didn't really need to... it was just a need to be liked I guess. The problem is now, I need to put myself first... I need to tell myself that I am good enough, that I do deserve the best... to honestly think about what *I* want... and demand nothing less... at least when it comes to the job search. So thank you to my family who, at least once a year, makes me put myself first... it's a good reminder that I deserve anything I want.
Saturday, May 22, 2010
"We Decided Not To Continue"
Yesterday I got two emails from two different jobs, both telling me "while your experience and qualifications are impressive, we have decided not to move forward with your application at this time." Now some people may be glad that they hear back, knowing that they can stop hoping.... me... I hate it.
Most places get so many applicants that they never bother to write back. I find that idea much more comforting, because there is still a bit of hope. My last job for example, I applied for right out of college in June... never heard back. Then in October I get a call out of the blue asking me to come in for an interview. What happened? They hired someone, but then she decided it wasn't the job for her and left. I know that is an EXTREMELY rare situation... but still it happens.
I guess the thing that bothers me about the rejection letters is they tell you that you are great and whatnot... but they don't tell you WHY they don't want you. I have the same frustration with my house, I get good feedback, but few people say WHY they decided not to buy. I know it may seem harsh, and I know that I do not take criticism well (imagine me in a pile of tears)... but still at least then you have something to work on. Instead leaving it wide open my mind wanders... it thinks of all the reasons they may have passed: did I not have enough experience, maybe it's because I'm not a pro at excel (though how would they know that), maybe it's because I'm a girl... maybe it's because I live 2,000 miles away... who knows.
I have always been that way, the type of person who wants to know why I'm not good enough for people... even if I can't handle the honest truth... I'd rather know because at least then my mind doesn't spend hours wandering. I guess I should go... my mind has a lot more wandering to do today... and I have a lot more jobs to apply for!
Friday, May 21, 2010
Work Ethic
I recently had a phone interview, and one question "so what have you been doing since your last job?" Trying to not say "enjoying spending time on myself, with friends and family, and relaxing" I had some lengthy but amazing answer about how I was focusing on the job search. But the thing is, I have realized that while I am a hard worker once I'm in a job, I lack that work ethic that makes me feel like I need to work or die.
Don't get me wrong, I really do work hard at my jobs, and it's not that I hate going to work or hate working... I just hate doing work that I... well hate. Some people, like my dad, have that need... that drive to work no matter what, even if it's not a job they enjoy... they just need to be working. I on the other hand, have no problem taking it easy. Instead of a work hard, play hard attitude, I like to think of it as a work hard, rest a lot attitude. My vacations usually have at least one day where we just kick back... things are not planned, etc. That's how I like it... I like having generic plans.
So now I guess I need to ask myself, is my more laid back attitude a good thing or a bad thing? Sure, it means that right now I would rather hold out for a dream job versus doing just anything... but where do I draw the line? How long can I really wait for that perfect job? I'm still not sure... but I'm just going to enjoy my birthday next week and hope that one of my resumes is making it's way into the "YES" pile.
Don't get me wrong, I really do work hard at my jobs, and it's not that I hate going to work or hate working... I just hate doing work that I... well hate. Some people, like my dad, have that need... that drive to work no matter what, even if it's not a job they enjoy... they just need to be working. I on the other hand, have no problem taking it easy. Instead of a work hard, play hard attitude, I like to think of it as a work hard, rest a lot attitude. My vacations usually have at least one day where we just kick back... things are not planned, etc. That's how I like it... I like having generic plans.
So now I guess I need to ask myself, is my more laid back attitude a good thing or a bad thing? Sure, it means that right now I would rather hold out for a dream job versus doing just anything... but where do I draw the line? How long can I really wait for that perfect job? I'm still not sure... but I'm just going to enjoy my birthday next week and hope that one of my resumes is making it's way into the "YES" pile.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
It Takes FOREVER!!!!!!!
So today will be a bit more of a rant... as I sit here, month 6 of looking for work... I am starting to realize just how long it takes from sending resume to actually getting a person in the job. I always love when I finally get contacted a month or so after applying and actually have to stop and think which job it was! One job that I applied for was actually the second job at the same place (different titles and departments) and I am able to go online and see the "status of my application" which was recently forwarded to the department... I applied... 3 weeks ago.
I guess it's just a reminder to be patient. My mom, the most patient woman I know, reminds me of this often. I am an impatient person, I admit... but that's what makes me good at what I do... I work on deadlines, and I expect the same for those that I am working for... but we all know that's not going to happen. So here I am... still looking, still hoping... still waiting for that ONE employer to realize that I am... perfect.
I guess it's just a reminder to be patient. My mom, the most patient woman I know, reminds me of this often. I am an impatient person, I admit... but that's what makes me good at what I do... I work on deadlines, and I expect the same for those that I am working for... but we all know that's not going to happen. So here I am... still looking, still hoping... still waiting for that ONE employer to realize that I am... perfect.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Networking 101
I have to say, it's hard telling people you are unemployed... really, when you have worked pretty steady since you could drive, it's hard to tell people that for the last 6 months you have been sitting on the couch looking for work on your laptop. But one thing I've learned is telling people can actually help.. A LOT!
The first time Nancy told me to start contacting the people I used to work with (at my work and contacts I stole before I left), and even friends and family I thought she was down right CRAZY!!!!! The plan, email everyone I know, telling them that I am looking for work in the Seattle area and if they know anyone there can they give me their contact information... even if they are not in the field I'm looking for. In a way it's kinda like facebook or friendster, or all those social networking sites where it connects friends and friends of friends and friends of those friends.... the point... get your name out there as much as possible... and yes it was weird to contact people I used to work with and tell them that I need their help... but what I didn't expect, is how much people want to help.
Between phone calls and emails I was able to connect with other employees who had left recently who gave me advice... maybe not contacts... but still I'll take some advice. Then others, even friends, who had a college buddy or they work with someone from Seattle, etc who offered to pass on my resume. It's amazing how much my network has grown, and how people really do want to help, even if it's just to pass on the buck to someone else. And while I haven't gotten a job out of it, I have made some great contacts, people wanting to help, people who live in Seattle who have offered to meet for coffee (what else out there right?) once I move out there. It's been really great.
And a bit of advice, once you make those contacts save them all... and send monthly updates with what you have been doing (job search related), attach your resume, and ask to keep you in mind. It's amazing how someone may not say anything in month one or 2, but then in month 3 they meet someone or think of someone and pass it on.... hopefully to your next contact that will lead to a next job!
Also, don't overlook strangers at parties... not that you want to just talk to anyone... but a random conversation at the hair salon or a wedding could lead to a new career. And you may want to consider having business cards instead of writing your email down on a napkin... you can actually get a box for FREE at Vistaprint (what I went with, it was super fast AND like $3 for shipping) or Bizcard. Plus, it's awesome getting to print out cards that don't have the wrong phone extension or a misspelled email... wait was that just me???
The first time Nancy told me to start contacting the people I used to work with (at my work and contacts I stole before I left), and even friends and family I thought she was down right CRAZY!!!!! The plan, email everyone I know, telling them that I am looking for work in the Seattle area and if they know anyone there can they give me their contact information... even if they are not in the field I'm looking for. In a way it's kinda like facebook or friendster, or all those social networking sites where it connects friends and friends of friends and friends of those friends.... the point... get your name out there as much as possible... and yes it was weird to contact people I used to work with and tell them that I need their help... but what I didn't expect, is how much people want to help.
Between phone calls and emails I was able to connect with other employees who had left recently who gave me advice... maybe not contacts... but still I'll take some advice. Then others, even friends, who had a college buddy or they work with someone from Seattle, etc who offered to pass on my resume. It's amazing how much my network has grown, and how people really do want to help, even if it's just to pass on the buck to someone else. And while I haven't gotten a job out of it, I have made some great contacts, people wanting to help, people who live in Seattle who have offered to meet for coffee (what else out there right?) once I move out there. It's been really great.
And a bit of advice, once you make those contacts save them all... and send monthly updates with what you have been doing (job search related), attach your resume, and ask to keep you in mind. It's amazing how someone may not say anything in month one or 2, but then in month 3 they meet someone or think of someone and pass it on.... hopefully to your next contact that will lead to a next job!
Also, don't overlook strangers at parties... not that you want to just talk to anyone... but a random conversation at the hair salon or a wedding could lead to a new career. And you may want to consider having business cards instead of writing your email down on a napkin... you can actually get a box for FREE at Vistaprint (what I went with, it was super fast AND like $3 for shipping) or Bizcard. Plus, it's awesome getting to print out cards that don't have the wrong phone extension or a misspelled email... wait was that just me???
Monday, May 17, 2010
No, I Have No Managerial Experience...
One thing I have been struggling with is convincing employers that I can do the job of a manager because I don't have any managerial experience. It's hard because not only do I know I can do the job... but I know I can do an amazing job at it. So how do you convince someone that you can be amazing when you don't fit their "desired resume"?? The answer... I have no idea.
That's my biggest problem right now... I'm trying to go in a different direction, leaving TV behind for a job on "the other side." I get the inner workings of a newsroom so you would think I would be a logical choice, but companies want someone who has worked in PR for 10 years or they are hiring unpaid internships... neither of which is really desirable.
I really wish I had more advice to give on this... today I had a phone interview at a TV station, I think it went ok... but I know they want someone with experience as a manager... which I don't have... so we'll see how it goes.
That's my biggest problem right now... I'm trying to go in a different direction, leaving TV behind for a job on "the other side." I get the inner workings of a newsroom so you would think I would be a logical choice, but companies want someone who has worked in PR for 10 years or they are hiring unpaid internships... neither of which is really desirable.
I really wish I had more advice to give on this... today I had a phone interview at a TV station, I think it went ok... but I know they want someone with experience as a manager... which I don't have... so we'll see how it goes.
Friday, May 14, 2010
Should I Apply???
I feel that overall I'm a confident person... that is until I'm looking at job openings. I keep asking myself... should I apply? Do I qualify? Am I good enough? Having to apply to jobs is a bit of a blow to the self esteem. I see some jobs that I could do... if I had 10+ years of experience. I see others that I know I could do... if I don't mind taking a $10,000+ pay cut. And then there are jobs I could do for the right pay... that about 2,000 other people who live in Seattle also apply for.... Needless to say it's a bit tiring.
The first thing I had to tell myself was... I am good enough. Sometimes it's hard to see how your experience in one career will help towards another. My experience is all in local broadcast news... and while yes, I could get another job in news, I could also be on the other side as a PR or Media Relations person. BUT it doesn't stop there... really any job that needs someone who can write is within my abilities. Also, I am lucky to have 5 years experience thanks to my job plus a little overflow thanks to the job I had in college. Once I realized I could apply to so many more jobs the applications went out in full!
The second thing I had to tell myself is that I am worth more. It does mean that I have to pass up some jobs that would mean a big pay cut... but honestly my experience is worth more than someone right out of college or lacking a degree all together. Sometimes it's hard, and it's not that I would overlook ALL jobs that make less, but unless there is some serious passion... why keep living paycheck to paycheck?
The last thing I told myself... WHY NOT!?!?!? I'm not the type of person who likes to put myself out there, fears from way back of being judged and ridiculed (elementary kids are ruthless!). I have had to remind myself lots of times... what is the worst that could happen? So you apply to a job that maybe you just meet the bare minimums or you don't have a lot of experience with one small "preferred" aspect of the job... you have until you start to learn it! Keep in mind this is not to be confused with the "required" aspects of the job... I can't obtain a master's degree or 5 more years experience in 3 months.... but when it comes to preferred... just go for it! In all honesty the worst thing that could happen... they look at your resume... and throw it away. The best thing... you get the job. I think I'll take my chances.
Getting through this time is all about attitude... and when faced with the question: should I apply? The answer should be "YES!" and the more excited you say it to yourself, the more positive you will come off in cover letters!!!!
The first thing I had to tell myself was... I am good enough. Sometimes it's hard to see how your experience in one career will help towards another. My experience is all in local broadcast news... and while yes, I could get another job in news, I could also be on the other side as a PR or Media Relations person. BUT it doesn't stop there... really any job that needs someone who can write is within my abilities. Also, I am lucky to have 5 years experience thanks to my job plus a little overflow thanks to the job I had in college. Once I realized I could apply to so many more jobs the applications went out in full!
The second thing I had to tell myself is that I am worth more. It does mean that I have to pass up some jobs that would mean a big pay cut... but honestly my experience is worth more than someone right out of college or lacking a degree all together. Sometimes it's hard, and it's not that I would overlook ALL jobs that make less, but unless there is some serious passion... why keep living paycheck to paycheck?
The last thing I told myself... WHY NOT!?!?!? I'm not the type of person who likes to put myself out there, fears from way back of being judged and ridiculed (elementary kids are ruthless!). I have had to remind myself lots of times... what is the worst that could happen? So you apply to a job that maybe you just meet the bare minimums or you don't have a lot of experience with one small "preferred" aspect of the job... you have until you start to learn it! Keep in mind this is not to be confused with the "required" aspects of the job... I can't obtain a master's degree or 5 more years experience in 3 months.... but when it comes to preferred... just go for it! In all honesty the worst thing that could happen... they look at your resume... and throw it away. The best thing... you get the job. I think I'll take my chances.
Getting through this time is all about attitude... and when faced with the question: should I apply? The answer should be "YES!" and the more excited you say it to yourself, the more positive you will come off in cover letters!!!!
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Selling Yourself
Selling yourself... it's the most effective way to get a job (or so I'm told).... and I'm not talking about "selling" yourself... just your skills at the job. It sounds easy, especially if you are a confident person... and while I do consider myself to be a confident person, I have trouble convincing an employer I'm the best person for the job. For me, the hardest part is trying to convey my entire personality, experience, smarts, sense of humor, etc all in a cover letter and resume.
First the resume... did you know that when you have enough experience you can allow the resume to go over one page?? I had NO idea until I saw a career counselor who polished up my resume. I felt stupid knowing that I was trying to squish years of work, college, awards, and reference all on one little page. I kept making the font smaller, going into the margins, etc. Then Nancy (my counselor), told me to write down all my achievements (not just awards, but projects I had a hand in too) in all of my jobs and college... I did just that which did give me a confidence boost. Then we took some of those achievements and added them to my career objectives and after each job. That pushed education, awards and references all to the second page. At first I asked if this was ok, don't employers only look at one page? And they might... but my professional experience is why I would get in the door since 1. my jobs all require a degree anyhow 2. I mention that I won awards under the job I that corresponds (then go into the details on page 2) and 3. it's not unusual to have references on a separate page. So now with a sparkling resume I was confident to get it out... but now I need to write a cover letter.
The last time I had to write a cover letter I was fresh out of college, and even then I didn't think it was that great. I know that the more professional experience you have the more you SHOULD know how to write a cover letter and resume... but who is supposed to teach you these things??? For me... Nancy. Between looking at books and online I found some professional cover letters then tweaked them to talk about me. The thing I learned was once you have a base of a great cover letter then you just need to tweak certain words to work with the job you are applying for. And a great way of doing that... use some of the words they are using in the ad... it makes you look like you read all the directions of the ad, and using the same wording they use makes you look like you will fit it.... or so you can hope.
Now keep in mind I don't have a job yet... but I have gotten positive feedback on my cover letter and resume.... I'm getting a little bit better at selling myself, selling an employer the idea that NO ONE will do this job as well as I can. Now I just need them to see it from 2,000 miles away!
First the resume... did you know that when you have enough experience you can allow the resume to go over one page?? I had NO idea until I saw a career counselor who polished up my resume. I felt stupid knowing that I was trying to squish years of work, college, awards, and reference all on one little page. I kept making the font smaller, going into the margins, etc. Then Nancy (my counselor), told me to write down all my achievements (not just awards, but projects I had a hand in too) in all of my jobs and college... I did just that which did give me a confidence boost. Then we took some of those achievements and added them to my career objectives and after each job. That pushed education, awards and references all to the second page. At first I asked if this was ok, don't employers only look at one page? And they might... but my professional experience is why I would get in the door since 1. my jobs all require a degree anyhow 2. I mention that I won awards under the job I that corresponds (then go into the details on page 2) and 3. it's not unusual to have references on a separate page. So now with a sparkling resume I was confident to get it out... but now I need to write a cover letter.
The last time I had to write a cover letter I was fresh out of college, and even then I didn't think it was that great. I know that the more professional experience you have the more you SHOULD know how to write a cover letter and resume... but who is supposed to teach you these things??? For me... Nancy. Between looking at books and online I found some professional cover letters then tweaked them to talk about me. The thing I learned was once you have a base of a great cover letter then you just need to tweak certain words to work with the job you are applying for. And a great way of doing that... use some of the words they are using in the ad... it makes you look like you read all the directions of the ad, and using the same wording they use makes you look like you will fit it.... or so you can hope.
Now keep in mind I don't have a job yet... but I have gotten positive feedback on my cover letter and resume.... I'm getting a little bit better at selling myself, selling an employer the idea that NO ONE will do this job as well as I can. Now I just need them to see it from 2,000 miles away!
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Who You Gonna Call???
Unemployment... I'm sure you've all heard horror stories about waiting in long lines and being on hold forever. I am hear to say... it's not THAT bad. Thanks to technology the lines are gone but there are still some problems you need to overcome.
A days (10 to be exact) my unemployment ran out and I called to apply for the extension. As of yesterday I still wasn't getting my benefits. So the question comes.... how you gonna call??? You get a book of phone numbers and none of them tell you who to call for what. So I started. I decided the first person to call is the one person I met in person. I called him in the morning... then about 6 hours later got a call back. I know I shouldn't be upset because at least I got a call back in the same day... but it was frustrating to finally get the call just for him to tell me... you have to call another number.
So here I am, calling the processing center, praying that I get through before 5 pm (Keep in mind I'm calling at 3:45).... with the phone on speaker I start pacing thinking of all the "what if's"... What if I don't get an extension? What if I can't pay my mortgage this month? What if the worst happens???
Luckily it all worked out for me... I got THE nicest lady ever who told me that my claim was never processed and that she would post date it to cover the last few weeks. (TIP: If you ever have to call, be really nice... the people on the phone will go OUT of their way to be nice back... which is a huge plus).
At the end of the day I guess I'm ok... but it was a bit scary.
A days (10 to be exact) my unemployment ran out and I called to apply for the extension. As of yesterday I still wasn't getting my benefits. So the question comes.... how you gonna call??? You get a book of phone numbers and none of them tell you who to call for what. So I started. I decided the first person to call is the one person I met in person. I called him in the morning... then about 6 hours later got a call back. I know I shouldn't be upset because at least I got a call back in the same day... but it was frustrating to finally get the call just for him to tell me... you have to call another number.
So here I am, calling the processing center, praying that I get through before 5 pm (Keep in mind I'm calling at 3:45).... with the phone on speaker I start pacing thinking of all the "what if's"... What if I don't get an extension? What if I can't pay my mortgage this month? What if the worst happens???
Luckily it all worked out for me... I got THE nicest lady ever who told me that my claim was never processed and that she would post date it to cover the last few weeks. (TIP: If you ever have to call, be really nice... the people on the phone will go OUT of their way to be nice back... which is a huge plus).
At the end of the day I guess I'm ok... but it was a bit scary.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Applying... for a second time.
This week I had to reapply for unemployment... not something I thought I was going to have to do back in October. I mean I'm a college grad with 5 years experience and great references.... but alas, 6 months later here I am, calling on my designated unemployment day and once again feeling horrible.
See, when you call you have to relive that moment... that moment you sat there and heard it was going to be your last day... and that moment... well it down right sucks. On the phone the unemployment specialist asks you a whole series of questions... all of which make me realize maybe my old job didn't respect me.
Did you get severance? NO. Will they be rehiring you in the next few months? NO. Do you have any prospects? Not really. And lastly... "let's check and see if there are any openings in the system.... no."
It's a hard thing to realize... that you are not as needed as you thought you were. I knew towards the end of my 5 year stint that I wasn't appreciated. Emails were ignored, meetings rescheduled over and over again, the last few weeks they didn't even try to hide my future plans. And while I could be bitter, and was for a little bit, I really do feel like in the end I will be happier. I am over all much happier with my life now, I sleep more, and better... I see friends and family... I have better relationships with them... I eat healthier and see the sun... my life is great. And I don't dwell on the bad memories, I try to focus on the good ones and look to the future, but when you have to reapply... it all comes rushing back.
I have never been fired before... and hope to never be again... it's not a fun experience... but once you get over that initial shock you can really focus on your future and finding a job that WILL appreciate you for what you have to offer. Oh, and a word of advice... don't wait until your benefits completely run out before you reapply... you will be stuck with a few weeks of no cash.
See, when you call you have to relive that moment... that moment you sat there and heard it was going to be your last day... and that moment... well it down right sucks. On the phone the unemployment specialist asks you a whole series of questions... all of which make me realize maybe my old job didn't respect me.
Did you get severance? NO. Will they be rehiring you in the next few months? NO. Do you have any prospects? Not really. And lastly... "let's check and see if there are any openings in the system.... no."
It's a hard thing to realize... that you are not as needed as you thought you were. I knew towards the end of my 5 year stint that I wasn't appreciated. Emails were ignored, meetings rescheduled over and over again, the last few weeks they didn't even try to hide my future plans. And while I could be bitter, and was for a little bit, I really do feel like in the end I will be happier. I am over all much happier with my life now, I sleep more, and better... I see friends and family... I have better relationships with them... I eat healthier and see the sun... my life is great. And I don't dwell on the bad memories, I try to focus on the good ones and look to the future, but when you have to reapply... it all comes rushing back.
I have never been fired before... and hope to never be again... it's not a fun experience... but once you get over that initial shock you can really focus on your future and finding a job that WILL appreciate you for what you have to offer. Oh, and a word of advice... don't wait until your benefits completely run out before you reapply... you will be stuck with a few weeks of no cash.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Getting Outside
Being unemployed it's easy to get depressed, and even more easy to spend all your time sitting inside your home feeling sorry for yourself. That's when you have to start forcing yourself to get outside. The problem comes when you can't afford to go out and that's when you have to get creative... so here are some of my free or cheap outings.
1. Visit A Park: Now-a-days more and more cities are putting money into making more green spaces, and some of them are quite beautiful. From bike paths, walking paths, flower gardens, basketball courts, tennis courts, heck even swings... get out side, enjoy a nice day and get some exercise. You can also pack a lunch and just get out for a different scenery.
2. Walk the Mall: Yes, the mall can be depressing when you don't have money to spend, but even if you go and maybe walk around, window shop... if you have to treat yourself to a smoothie or cookie in the food court. I have had fun dreaming, visiting a department store and thinking about what I'm going to register for if I ever get engaged or move to a new place and get a great job that gives me all the money I can spend. But like I said, it can be depressing when you leave with nothing.
3. Hit Up Used Stores: This may require you buying something, but used book stores have some great finds, and flea markets are always fun. Plus the great thing about those stores is that it's not unusual to leave with nothing, and sometimes you can find something amazing for really cheap!
4. Take in Some Art: In most cities there are A LOT of art exhibits and not all of them are in the museum. Many hang in free exhibits at Universities, Colleges, or even smaller art galleries. Check out your local visitors bureau website for information or even call your local college to see if they have anything.
5. Festivals are FUN!: For those who know me it's no surprise I love festivals! They are always fun, and you can usually get some free stuff. Best of all many festivals are free to the public. It's a great way to get out of the house and find out about other free stuff going on around town. For example - music festivals always have information on where you can see more local bands for free.
Just remember to keep your sanity you have to get out of the house.... so do it!
1. Visit A Park: Now-a-days more and more cities are putting money into making more green spaces, and some of them are quite beautiful. From bike paths, walking paths, flower gardens, basketball courts, tennis courts, heck even swings... get out side, enjoy a nice day and get some exercise. You can also pack a lunch and just get out for a different scenery.
2. Walk the Mall: Yes, the mall can be depressing when you don't have money to spend, but even if you go and maybe walk around, window shop... if you have to treat yourself to a smoothie or cookie in the food court. I have had fun dreaming, visiting a department store and thinking about what I'm going to register for if I ever get engaged or move to a new place and get a great job that gives me all the money I can spend. But like I said, it can be depressing when you leave with nothing.
3. Hit Up Used Stores: This may require you buying something, but used book stores have some great finds, and flea markets are always fun. Plus the great thing about those stores is that it's not unusual to leave with nothing, and sometimes you can find something amazing for really cheap!
4. Take in Some Art: In most cities there are A LOT of art exhibits and not all of them are in the museum. Many hang in free exhibits at Universities, Colleges, or even smaller art galleries. Check out your local visitors bureau website for information or even call your local college to see if they have anything.
5. Festivals are FUN!: For those who know me it's no surprise I love festivals! They are always fun, and you can usually get some free stuff. Best of all many festivals are free to the public. It's a great way to get out of the house and find out about other free stuff going on around town. For example - music festivals always have information on where you can see more local bands for free.
Just remember to keep your sanity you have to get out of the house.... so do it!
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